My boyfriend tells his family everything about us - even details of our sex life. I find it so frustrating.
I'm 16 and
my boyfriend is 18. We've been together three months and sexually active
for two months. We've both had previous partners.
We recently
went for an STI check and it turns out I have something.
I'm being
treated but I told my boyfriend so that he could get checked out too. I
told him not to say anything because I felt it was a private matter.
He is very
close to his older sister and told her what was happening. He regularly
tells his sister and his younger brother about our sex life too.
I understand he's close to his family but it upsets me that he does this. Do they have to know everything?
help save this relationship... Pls advice
hloooooooooooo
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ReplyDeleteDear you need to understand that at 16 you are still going through a lot of emotions and could make a lot of mistakes. The guy that tells about your intimacy shows he himself isn't matured yet and probably is using you to score a point to others BUT at your own expense.my dear it will do you all good to leave this 'immature relationship' and focus on building a good woman out of yourself.many guys out there are only looking for ladies to have sex with NOT love.for now go back to building a dream career,stay away from sex and focus on God.He will not only give you a nice guy but also a fantastic husband who will make all you have read in novels child's play in comparism to the love he will give you. A word is enough for the wise my dear.
ReplyDeleteYea u said it all...!!
Deletesomethings are private!
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